I was excited. I very seldom spend my hard-earned money on books for myself anymore, books I’ve identified as ones I really want to read. This was one of those books. I was shopping for Christmas gifts and figured I could slip it in there, just to meet the free shipping minimum, or maybe the free shipping minimum was already met, and I figured, What would be the harm? Had I shopped the malls I would have plunked down that much at Starbucks already, right?
This is where things get fuzzy. How, exactly, did this book find its way onto my Wish List in the first place? And when? There are books that have been on my Wish List for over two years (when I order, as when I read, I have to be in a certain mood). This book, as I look at it now, was copyrighted in 2006, but for some reason, I don’t think it hit the list that long ago. This version–the Reading group guide edition–was printed in 2007, whatever that’s worth. But the real confusion stems from the following statement–or, in my estimation, what should have been considered a disclamer–”Author of Amy and Isabelle.” I hated Amy and Isabelle.
Amy and Isabelle, by Elizabeth Strout, was, as I recall, an “Oprah book,” at the beginning of Oprah’s reign as Book Club Queen, when her recommendations were still, for me, something highly anticipated. It came out around the same time as White Oleander, I think, which may be another reason I remember it less than fondly, as most books I read around then paled in comparison. Perhaps I didn’t hate the book, but I remember it as pointless and drab, and generally disappointing, at a time when there were lots of of other great selections floating around. The same could, I think, be said about Abide with Me, Strout’s second novel. Again, given my feelings about the first work, I can’t understand how I allowed it to sneak onto my list–perhaps I confused her with another author, or was swayed by stellar reviews–but my response to this book is remarkably similar, despite wildly different characters and setting.
Briefly, the story focuses on the Reverend Tyler Caskey, who leads a small church in a small New England town in the 1950s. Reverend Caskey is struggling–with just about everything. His unpopular and probably bipolar wife is dead of cancer, his mother is pressuring him to remarry. He is unnaturally fond of his odd housekeeper, who has secrets of her own, and his five year old daughter is raising eyebrows everywhere she goes. Caskey is also somewhat obsessed with theologian Dietrich Bonhoeffer, which I found ultimately distracting.
Certainly Strout can turn a phrase, and there is some elegance in her portrayal of ordinary people in simple circumstance. But at the end of the day–and those days seem to stretch endlessly at times–I just found the story dull. I did not care much about these people and their monotonous lives. I did not look forward to returning to their small, intimate town on my lunch breaks or at bedtime. It took me over a week to read a book of less than 300 pages. Abide with them, I simply prefer not to.